How did I end up HERE? 

YOU'RE THE FRIEND EVERYONE CALLS WHEN THINGS FALL APART, RIGHT?

 

You also close incredible deals, read the energy in the room within seconds. But you also would have laughed in someone's face a few years ago if they'd told you you'd end up walking on eggshell in your relationship, refreshing his texts at 11pm, replaying every conversation wondering what you said wrong. And yet — here you are. And I am glad you are here. 

I've been you. Let's take a deep breath before you explore this site.

You're in the right place.

 

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HELLO DEAR, 

I'm STEFFI

I've been the woman you are right now.

A few years ago I was the one skipping yoga to obsessively check my phone, hoping the man who had just screamed at me would text me 'I love you'. I was the one crying on the floor asking to be seen — and getting yelled at "all I hear is victim.". I was the one who felt loneliner next to him than I'd ever felt alone.

Today, I'm a trauma-informed somatic coach, helping women like you walk out of relationships with narcissistic people, heal what's yours to heal, and rise into the woman you came here to be. I know she is in you.

Besides standing on the shoulders of many incredible teachers, the main reason you can trust me is because I know exactly where you're sitting right now.

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